New Ways

I have started learning to not wait when something bugs me. I will now say hay I don't like when you do that. I have also learned I need me time. Life is to short. If I don't get out and do things for myself no one else will do it. I still take care of my son. I will make sure he is well taken care of. But I have learn if you always put yourself last things will fall apart. I think when I got married I felt life was about him. I grew up in home where my mother did not work. I didn't understand that when you are working and he is working it should be a 50/50 relationship. I felt guilty if I did not do it all. Well not anymore!! I try and make everyone do their fair share.