Monday, April 27, 2009

About two weeks ago the three of us went to therapy. I think my husband and son need to go together. It just so happen that my son was off from school because of spring break. I think it went well. But I do believe they need to go more often together. Well this past week has been a little tough. My husband wanted to trade in his motor cycle (which I was not happy about) and was turned down for a loan. I should tell you its the same company he has the loan now through. I believe its all to do with the bad economy. We just paid off our car and had no lates on our report.

The reason I tell you all this is because now my husband will be in a funk for at least a month over this. So alot of bad moods. Which for him means he needs more control. Even though I know all this it doesn't make it any easier on me. Which means things have to be done his way. I want some control and end up spending money we don't have. Also I get a little pushy when he is acting all controlling which cause problems also. Top it all off a check bounced.

Thursday, April 2, 2009

The daily worries

Well today has been a little hectic. My day started with taking our dog for her morning walk. For some reason she did not do her morning business. So half hour later I tried again and again still no luck. Since I had to go to my part time job this morning I put her in her crate. So when I got home for lunch she finally did her deed. I told my son I would leave a note to let him know if she went. Well husband got home first and must have taken advantage of that note and didn't take the dog out. He made the dog wait an hour till our son got home and made him take the dog out.

He then calls me at work to let me know I left the bathroom door open (with the dog lose). But thank god there was no mess to clean up. The dog loves to pull stuff out of the trash can. Plus I left the bedroom light on. I quess this means when I notice a mistake he makes I should call him at work.

The shut off notice came for the water bill today. What else is new. Some how I got lucky and mailed the car insurance just in time or it would be cancelled. Between the bills and father and son fighting on who does what, I need a vacation. Since the bills are over due I guess thats not going to happen any time soon.

Well after my full time job today I will go home and crawl in bed (I work nights) and read "Twlight". That will help me unwind!