Health Care

I am far from an expert on the health care issues, but I do know that something has to be done. What I don't like is that people who have never had to worry how they were going to pay for their child's meds is making the decision for us. Plus you know that they are getting a kick back from the insurance companies and drug companies. Also I hope that everyone looks at what the government is planning in health care before they make up their minds whether they like it or not.

Please don't believe what the senators have to say we all know they have their own agenda. All I know is something has to be done or people like me will be using my whole paycheck to pay for health insurance and will have nothing left for the copays let alone food. Right now close to 17% of my pay goes to health care. That is not counting my copays through out the year. About another 7% of my pay went to that.

So calculate what you are paying and you may be surprised. Remember we are already paying for the uninsured. Part in our taxes and part in the rising cost.

Car Problems

Let me just tell the car problems we been having lately. First I am driving my car with husband in passenger seat. "What the hell noise is that?" he says Of course I say it always makes that noise. Well it is not suppose to. So that was the axle and boot. The car now comes home making a different noise. This after my husband and brother in law say they fixed the first problem. Then a few days later my battery dies. Get a new battery go to gas station the next day before work and my car wont start. The battery cable was loose. Husbands car the super charger belt breaks off causing another belt to break and the pulley. Then a week later his battery dies. So far its been about $500.00 worth of little stuff going wrong all around the holidays. What more could a women ask for.

Of course this whole time tring to keep husband from running out and buy another car. He does know we can not afford one. With both our health insurances going up at work and no raises. That is a cut in our pay!!

Good Mood

Well my husband made it home from his weekend away. He honesty seems to be in a good mood. Even though the belt broke on his car and he could not fix it himself he wasn’t mad. I know this may sound a little strange but this is weird. I am waiting for the bomb to go off. I don’t know if its because he wants to make sure he gets his cycle cover for Christmas or if its something else. I just haven’t seem him act like this before. He is trying to tell me its from his therapy. Which he has been going to for over a year. I can not understand how it would just kick in now.

Ok lets change gears a little here now. I have told you about a friend of mine whose is dating a control freak. He has hit her in the past. She got in fight with him and he was about to hit her so she told him that I knew about the incident and that I took pictures of what he did to her. Now is feels he cant trust her anymore that she is a liar and never wants to see her again. Well thank god. I don’t think they are really done though. I don’t know what needs to happen for her to wake up.

I have to apologize for not writing in awhile. My husband has been having a ruff time. No raises at work bills piling up, and just life in general. He saw his therapist last week and came home in a good mood. I have to say I was surprised. He is trying to roll with the punches. I have been the depressed one. I can not stand making nothing in a pay check. Worried about Christmas around the corner. Plus have been stressing about my health.

Last week my husband says his brother invited him up to his cabin in the mountains. He says hes going. So I say great have a good time. But in the back of my head my inter voice keeps saying you know he wont go. Why you ask do I think that. Well he dose this all the time. First he complains his brother never invites him any more. Then when he does he says yes and at the last minute calls him up and says he is not going. So last night I ask him whats the game plan for the weekend. He starts complaining and says he really didn't invite me I don't think I will go. So I say I knew you weren't going to go. What do you mean he replies. Well you do this all the time, why do you think he really don't invite you any more. He knows you wont go. He tries to say he has to always do the dishes and has to sleep on the floor. So I just agree with him and think to myself why do you complain that he never invites you if you really don't want to go.
Well he must had thought about what I said and decide to go. He called me at home this morning and asked if I would pack his bag for him. I will find out for sure when I get home if he actually went. I did tell him if he does go don't come home in a bad mood.