Our children

I have two children that our 15 years apart in age. They both have a love hate relationship with their father. Their father lets things go till it drives him nuts. Then he flips. So he thinks he is being gentle with them when in reality he is causing more harm then good. My daughter had the chance to move out at 18 and she took it. She ran out the door. I fear for my son that he will become the same angry person. I already see angry issues with him. I just hope its not to late.