The talk

I had my second session. We talked about what I wanted out of counselling and issues with my husband. I feel since he has been in counselling for over a year and only a few things have changed whats the point. Are marriage is still at a dead end. He doesn't see it that way. He thinks everything is fine and dandy. Which I don't understand. He reads into other things so much and thinks the worse of every other situation. Why does our marriage not make him worry? Any way the therapist asked me if I talk to him about what my issues are. I told her when I do say something he says OK he understands but a few days later we are back to the same old same old. So what is the point of saying anything. She thinks it may be a communication skills.
Well I tried yesterday and told him how I feel I do everything for him. I go out of my way to do things that will make him happy or do things to not get him upset. How I worry when he gets in my car that the car is not to dirty or that he wont have to fiddle with the radio to find his station. I explained that he wont even do little things for me. Unless its also something he is into also.
I guess we have to wait and see what happens.