Things seemed as if we were going back to the old ways. My husband has been getting angry at everything again. I tried to do what our therapist said to do but it did not help. So then I get angry. Which turns in to a major fight. Well it was time for our therapy apt. He didn't want me to go with him. I said this is our marriage so its our problem we need to go together. I called our therapist two hours before our apt. letting her know I needed to talk about how my husband has been acting. So she took us in individually for about 10 minutes each.
Well I found out several things that have been his triggers. One our daughter bought her own house. (In the past we were all going to buy a house together, the buyer of our house backed out. It broke our hearts) Then the guy who it his car with the company truck told him since he did that now he not getting his raise. He said it has if my husband should not have said anything. OH WELL. He doesn't deserve a raise.
So now that everything is out in the open I hope things will come down. I not sure how to block this out. I need to find a way to listen and not take it personally.
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